There are moments and little pleasures in life me and mr FAT enjoy together...
- Sharing a tub of rum raisin Haggen Daz ice-cream
- Facing each other, while lying on our bed, talking about almost anything, preparing to sleep.
- Groceries shopping
- Brushing our teeth together in front of the mirror, before we sleep and after we wake up (though the mirror is small, there was no 'view-blockin' and we kind of fit into the mirror as there is a significant 'height difference')
- Swimming (we ve not done this in ages!)
- Having our fav japanese paper steamboat meal at shimizu jap restaurant @ transview golf club
- Taking a nice long walk along Bedok Jetty
- Holding hands in the lift
I asked him one fine night after a little argument on why he never suggest activities that we could enjoy doing together and that I had to decide on everything.
"So, what do you enjoy doing with me the most? There must be something, rite!?"
He thought for the longest time, searching for answers. My heart softened and melted when he said almost in tears,
" I really do not know what I enjoy doing together with you.... I enjoy doing what you enjoy doing .... I m happy when you are happy."
That nite, I said 'sorry' to him and we both cried.
You don't marry someone you can live with, you marry the person who you cannot live without.
gosh... so sweet =)
ReplyDeleteDearest EL, I felt so touched when I read this blog entry. Truly, Love demands no Answer, for Love itself is a feeling which flow straight from the heart. Simple routines add pleasure to Life just so because your other half is there to share...
ReplyDeleteP/S: Such a simple answer from Mr. PIG, yet it is enough to make a person who is not at the scene touched and allow her eyes to swell with tears... Such is the power of LOVE. *My sincere well-wishes to both of you*